Feminism and Biology are Cruel Lovers

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Seriously THIS IS WHY YOU'RE ALONE
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Feminism isn't to blame. There really is a lot of luck involved in meeting the right person. Don't overthink things, you have plenty of time.
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TL;DR WAHHHHHHHHHHHH was all I heard 5 seconds in.
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At this point maybe she should be looking at what she has to offer someone else as opposed to what others can offer her. I do not think I have to point out what the common denominator is here
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Oh Huni.... Just relax and stop worrying about it... Women (or men) are not attracted to desperate and clingy. Just go with the flow, be yourself and trust me when I tell u it will happen when u least expect it and or not hunting people down like a panther and slowly sucking the life out of them out of emotional hunger;)
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Valentines Day was LAST month.
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Feminism has nothing to do with anything you just wrote.
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To answer your question; yeah, it's completely normal at age 30 to have nothing worked out. And no, none of that shit had anything to do with feminism.
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Maybe you're just attracted to people that are just not good for you.
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I have been thinking the same thoughts over the past year, after my last relationship ended. My mental and emotional state are much better now, it took some time, but I am actually enjoying being single now. I'm in no rush to find love and have another relationship. What you wrote, I can relate to...and I'm a man. Too bad this place is anonymous, I would like to buy you a coffee, take a walk and talk. Good luck to you... :)
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Do yourself a favor. Spend some real time living abroad, ideally in non-Western countries. See how much of the world lives, and how the ridiculous fantasies concerning marriage and love shoved down people's throats in this country are just that; a fantasy. And see how most of us---especially those commenting here---have it easy in life.

That said, I would not want to be in my thirties + pining for a life partner and trolling the bars, the Merc lovelab, and match.com looking for someone. Must be tough, and you have my sympathies, especially in a place where there are so many Peter Pan, man-childish fools running around.