As a single woman in PDX, I am appalled at how many men I have met in this town who just want something "casual". Or they freak out because after going on 5 or 6 dates, they realize they really "like" you, but not ready for a relationship. Then why the F&*K did you go on that many dates with and not say anything? Men in their mid to late 30s', you would think they would have their lives figure out, and want to think about at least being in a serious relationship. This whole "casual" thing, or "open-relationship" is childshish, and frankly, fE*king stupid. Men of Portland, OR... GROW UP!!!!