I need some feedback. Dating guy for almost 2 years. I break up with him because our personalities are just fire meets fire. But, we stay best friends. For 9 months, we stay best friends. That also means that neither of us has dated anyone else. We talk everyday. We share every aspect of our lives & our hearts. So, we have not emotionally broken up.
My friend likes him. My friend is fucking gorgeous. We all meet up. From the moment she walks into the room, I cease to exist. So I leave, totally hurt, & they end up staying the night together. After 2 days together, he is at my house, declaring his feelings for me. Wanting another chance. Touching me, kissing me. I say, too late, you already spent the day & night in bed with my friend. But, best of luck to you both. A week of trying to get back together with me, while he is courting my friend, goes by. The day they make plans for her to come stay over again, he stops talking to me. Because i'm just too angry.
After almost a whole month of going back & forth like this, I am now being blamed for...being hurt & angry. For them going to bed together. For them dating.
I've learned the lesson that i am NOT cool with my friends & my x dating. But, what could i have done differently? I am tired of being told that I shouldn't have any feelings at all. I told them both how i felt. But, I also tried really hard to step back & be supportive. It's confusing! And I don't know why it hurts so much...