I think you are an OK person. Not to hot, nor too cold. Your obsession with grammar and punctuation does however drive us mad mad. You should go back and edit everything you think is perfect because someone(hint: you're related) just "fixed" a few thing here and there. I admit, I laughed my head off at first but now I feel a tinge of remorse has come in on the mist, settling heavy on my plaid puffy.