I wasn't abusive. I'm sorry. You just don't get to use that word in this climate. We are both college educated liberal progressive humanities types prone to wonderful verbose exciting but usually incendiary remarks.
Face it. I dd not yell, I did not push, shove, or verbally assault you. I confronted you about cheating on me with a married man expecting his first born. I did it in private, I didn't tell anyone else, I simply brought it up. When the questions got hard, you stormed off and said that the 'constant questioning' was becoming abusive and put it on twitter, Facebook, and instagram after the first attempt at bringing it up. You even hit the mailbox as you backed out in anger. I will avoid bringing this to the attention of our friends, and just kind of swallow it. Please though, in a climate where women who were actually wronged and have assholes spreading lies about them, I will not be what has been called a male apologist. I fess up to my crimes. Time to fess up to yours, in private of course.