Hot women are a dime a dozen. You don't deserve special treatment over anyone else because you feel that you "have a great ass" or other 'special features'. It really doesn't matter how hot you think you are, or how hot someone thinks you might be, but when you open your mouth and you have nothing to contribute to a conversation, you turn from a 8,9 or 10 to a 1 or 2.

Anyone over the age of 25 realizes that stupidty is feared more than average looking women. Boys of a high school mentality will chase the 'hot chicks' regardless of their intelligence. Real men see through the bullshit and will run the other way when they realize they are dealing with a shallow idiot. Yeah - you might be hot but you don't have brains. Looks like you are stuck dating high school boys while you are in your 40's.

Read a book. Be worth my time.