For so long I felt sorry for you, made excuses for you, believed that deep down you were a good person. It took me a long time but I finally accept the truth. YOU ARE AN ABUSER. The only one's who deserve pity are your victims. It's taken me so much work to recover from all your bullshit. The way you put me down, threatened me, called me names and broke my spirit. You're too much of a self absorbed coward to ever apologize or take responsibility for the things you did. My friends all tell me I'm lucky you bailed. I'm finally starting to believe it.