I just don't want to date you. I refuse to be called a bigot because I found your facial hair unattractive. Your photos showed you without it (not that I put that much focus on it) and yes, you're a woman. When we met you had the mustache of a 13 year old boy; it sorta caught me off guard. Since I'm not a rude SOB, I acted as if nothing was there; we had drinks, we talked, hell, we even laughed and then we said goodnight. You wrote asking for another date and I politely declined. You pushed and kept emailing. I kept declining. Then, you got all weird and forced the issue, so I came clean: I'm not into facial hair on a woman. Talk about a freak-out! You basically accused me of being this aggressive bigot who is superficial and sexist. I was taken aback, to be honest. I don't see why I can't have a preference without being called a bigot? I don't like facial hair on a woman, does this mean that I'm some sexist, woman-hating asshole? I don't see it. Do I have to like everything and everyone? If you met a man who was bald, but his photos didn't show him as being bald... and say you weren't attracted to bald men... does that make you a man-hating woman? No, it wouldn't. Listen, I "identify" as being straight (or "cis-gendered" for all you PC people) if you want to get down to the brass tacks and I'm attracted to women and all things feminine. I don't like facial hair on a woman, OK? This doesn't make me a bigot; get over it.