I've been seeing a few people I haven't seen in years the past couple of weeks. Maybe 4. I'm an observant person so I notice these things. I understand though that most people are narcissists and aren't paying attention to the world around them. Or just plain clueless with their head stuck where the sun don't shine. But when I saw you people, I avoided eye contact, looked the other way, and just pretended not to see you. Whether you saw me or not is not the issue. I surly would've said hello if I wanted to. I would've in the past. We were friends, or friendly, or acquaintances at one point, and I would have been curious to know what you have been up to the past few years. But I just didn't want to waste my energy on the small talk, nor do I care what you have been up to. We didn't have a falling out or anything. It's just one of those ways that life seems to go. I had your number, and I have your email, and I think we are facebook friends, but if a few years go by, and there is no contact, or reaching out to one another to say hello, that is no friendship. Clearly there needs to be no other effort made but just to pretend not to see you.