Iâm a cis gay man in Canada. Other than my supportive enby partner of five years and a few close friends, most people in my life donât know that Iâm a fetish content creator. My stuff delves into the foot porn/macrophilia (love of giants) space. I donât make enough to live off, but itâs a good side hustle; I earn enough to help with bills and groceries. Plus, creating this content has resulted in meeting people with the same paraphilias and fantasies. Being a kink content creator has many more pros than cons and it allows me to share my sexual interests with willing and understanding people â which is a great thing, as my combination of fetishes is pretty rare. I do all of this faceless. Save for the handful of times Iâve posted a glimpse of my face on my OnlyFans account, Iâve never shown my face on public platforms. I am self-employed, so I donât have to worry about my boss finding out and firing me, since I am my own boss. But the âinternet is foreverâ and I fear repercussions if I change careers in the future. How best to navigate this?
Fearful About Coming Employment Situation
âThe internet is forever,â said Aaron, a 30-year-old gay man and BDSM content creator. âI see news articles every week about people losing jobs after someone sent their OnlyFans account to their employer.â Which is why Aaron and his fiancĂŠ John, a 25-year-old gay man who shares his love of bondage, both wear masks in the videos they share on their JustForFans account. âUntil we live in a world where no one is shamed for their sexual interests and what they choose to do in their free time,â said Aaron, âshowing our faces is not worth the risk to our careers or our relationships with friends and family.â
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