Being a lesbian is more than just "liking vagina". If that's all it is to her, I'm not surprised she's not getting many dates.

@cat: last time I checked, one of the principle elements of lesbianism was liking vagina. Also, BI seems to be boiling it all down to naughty bits in her letter, indicating that to her, patriarchy and feminism isn't as important as vagina and cock. She's not choosing sexual partners based on political ideologies; I have seen so many lesbians fall into that trap and then later struggle with being attracted to a male person. Identity politics be damned.

"Identity politics be damned."
That should be a T-shirt/Bumper Sticker/Billboard Scrum!