What a churlish take on challenging but also thoughtful, compassionate, and open-minded piece. Let's highlight another quote:

"I choose to enjoy sex in a way that is different than the ideal for a gay man. It all comes down to what you choose and why, and knowing what you want for yourself and why you want it....

"I want to make it very clear that while I have found a path that brings me profound joy and that is the right path for me, I don’t endorse this as the only path for somebody who is gay and religious. I will never, ever judge somebody else’s path as being 'incorrect' and I know many people who have chosen different paths than myself."