This looks like a Dan post, but it has Steve's name at the top.

And the last line is the most important. People need to BELIEVE it when they are told it's only sex.

It is a Dan post! Sometimes the backend of our blogging platform goes kerblooey. Thanks, and fixed!

As long as some gay men still fetishize people of color but would never want to date them (or those from another socio-economic tier, even) I'm not sure why bi guys owe it to them to "own up" to anything regarding their own tendencies.