Some girlfriend.

Oh, lotta good it'll do telling everyone in the world but him.

It seems more likely that they have discussed it already frankieb...but yes this is one for Dan Savage. The answer is pretty simple however- find someone willing to have an open relationship or be incompatible and miserable.

So he wants it when you don't. And you want it when he doesn't. What a gut-wrenching delimma you must have. What to do, what to do.

Have you guys tried breaking up?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=18_YMm-34GU

This is not funny. What I read in here is that his boyfriend is fucking her while she sleeps and that she already has std`s in her mouth. And that she doesn`t have brain capacity. It sounds like a kink to me, but for heaven`s sake, break up already and tell her to go home. Worst can happen. Worst than it already is for victim girl.

@ leaky- but there is more...She is paraplegic. You can tell as she writes, " ...do someone else and get off my back". He gets on her back when she is on the floor and she can't get him off. Yes definitely a victim...

Wow, and there`s more to this CA? You have a flying imagination, what else is happening in this story!? It`s tearing my soul apart with anguish to not know what paraplegic girl is going to do next. Maybe she will recover thru a Divine Miracle!

As it happens Leaky, the shady boyfriend locks her in a cage and only brings her out for sex. This is revealed in her first sentence when she solemnly asks for leave, on the occasion he doesn't have std infested sex with her. This would also explain her acquiescence, at not having broken up with him. As unfortunate as it is, there may be more; thus I will continue my investigation and apprise you forthwith, shall any other information be unveiled.

So you wrote this?

If you are asking me if I wrote this "Dear Boyfriend" post then absolutely not. /facepalm

still, amazes a lot of people that you know so much about this story,with acquaint imagination, can you tell us what else have you unveiled, I mean, if you have the time?

I don't see how you would know if anyone besides yourself would be amazed. As for the other, there isn't much I can say. I will tell you this- I received a frightening phone call this morning from a very convincing man. He had a deep baritone voice, and I won't get into the details here, but suffice it to say he suggested I stop my inquiries into the matter of the victim to which we have been postulating.

It will sound strange I know, but as I was speaking with the threatening voice, I had the premonition that I should give notice to something beyond my window. Peering out, I observed a man on the payphone below. He was dressed in a pink bunny suit with a tutu. You might imagine my astonishment. But even more alarming was the fact that we made eye contact quickly proceeding my first sight of him, at which he hung up the phone and dashed away on a motorized skateboard.

Should I experience any misfortune, following this latest correspondence, it's entirely possible you will no longer hear from me. I will do my best to maintain caution and learn what I can.

Gez, you sure have a thing for writing weird stuff. Is this another story or a new one?

Boo. Buy a vibrator; hump your pillow & eat your boogers.