People fall out of love. Stop sulking. You "had" to move back home because you couldn't get your shit together, obviously. Not his fault.

Hard to say who's at fault when this happens, arenit. Maybe neither, maybe one, maybe both. I can't even decide who was at fault in some of my past relationships that ended, I won't make a judgment on someone else's from just a few dozen words.

Her chief gripes:

he stopped kissing her goodbye in the morning
he wanted doggystyle
she couldnt find a job and he moved on

These are par for the course. Was he uppercutting her like a Cleveland bus driver? Was he taking nudes of her while she slept and sending them to all her Facebook friends? Was he putting ratpoison in her oatmeal? No - I'm pretty sure these minor details would've been included in this letter.

People fall out of love. Yes it sucks, but it happens. Sulking has never helped anyone in the history of mankind, but to blame having to move back home on your ex seems ridiculous. Any dumbass can get a fast food or call center job, afford a shitty apartment and gradually find a better job, a closer-in location, etc. Honestly, IA sounds lazy.

It was nice of you to take time to wish him a Happy Birthday. .......................................................................................you'd take him back in an instant.

The world we've created distracts the love birds and they fly into the windows at full speed and die a painful head throbbing death. Sorry.

"you were taking Instagram photos of yourself in your outfits in the front yard for ten minutes"

Sounds like you maybe dodged a bullet here.