Yeah, did she ask you for your fucking opinion about her hair? No? Shut the fuck up then. Why do men think they have a right to comment on women's bodies all the fucking time? That's a great way to not get laid!
Dear IA, next time you get all upset at someone for judging you and the way you express yourself (or whatever you call it when people make fun of what you like or how you like it), I hope you remember this "rant" you wrote. Their opinion of you is exactly as valid as your opinion of them.
You the kind of metalheads I like? The kind who get that the genre is silly. That it is SUPPOSED to be silly. It's not about what other audience members are wearing/doing with their hair. What is this, and ICP concert?
I remember my first Metallica show. " MOM IM NOT MAKING IT UP THIS TIME, I REALLY CANT GO TO SCHOOL TODAY!!!" (due to the fact that I couldn't lift my head off of the pillow) ah.. those were the days... Headbanging to the point of whiplash. Young, dumb and not the least bit concerned with my spine or vertebrae...
Screamed the guy who clearly gives a shit. I truly hope the irony of your complaint is not lost on you.
Headbanging (smiley face rolling its eyes & dismissively shaking its head)