So, you're writing her mother because you thought you should tell a grown-up? (Or you've just ripped off an episode from the second season of Passions.)
Let me get this straight, we're talking about an ignorant home-wrecking server, and you think the proportionate response is to tattle on her to her mom?
Uhhh, couldya remind me her name and where she works, please?
There is no hope for you.