I have a crappy job, but other than that life is pretty awesome. Because I can buy, and do what I need and some of what I want, as I have good credit. My student loans are paid off, I own a house and two cars with my husband. My job is meh, but I have comprehensive health insurance. We don't all need to be defined by our jobs to be happy. Funny that right out of college I met many people just like you, pre-success. Most are still unsuccessful and have to beg for money from friends when they need to get a tooth pulled. Because no one will give them credit and they can't afford dental insurance (not part of ACA for adults). I hope your success continues, but don't pretend this is the norm.
Either you think student loans are fucked up, or you were stupid enough to borrow more money than you can repay.
Thanks for that man, I needed a refresher.