so if the ex-boyfriend is an unsuccessful try-hard, what does that make the psychotic ex-girlfriend who continues to hack into his private email and social accounts to feel better about herself?

Shadenfruede is German for "somebody who enjoys seeing the misfortune of others". This guy isnt bothering you, and it seems that your life is better than his. So why do you insist on commiting multiple crimes against him and labeling hims as something you practice being? It sounds like you're just a twat. He left you, get over it you psycho bitch.

I could be wrong, but isn't this illegal? If it is, cease and desist. And even if it's not, it's pretty dorky on your part and karmically will come back to haunt you.

If this is honestly what you're doing with your time you really haven't grown an iota. I'd take "uncessful try hard" over mean spirited psychotic stalker, as a character trait any day.

Every man who read this just went and changed his passwords.
Way to keep it classy girl.. And we wonder why men think we're psychos.

Good for you? Not. You're the one still living in the past. You might be married but he's the one who actually "moved on", ya creep!

It's so easy for people to judge from a distance. Has no one here ever been through a breakup, a hard time in which they've done things they regret? I find it hard to believe that everyone here hasn't done some dumb stuff in their own similar situations.
Yes, what she's doing is kinda pathetic, but seriously all you judgemental types calling her psychotic, you've never sadly looked at your ex's Facebook page?
I'm not saying what she's doing isn't sad, and of course the "hacking" part sucks, and she clearly hasn't gotten over it fully, but have some fucking compassion you dicks.
I'm so sick of the internet being a place for everyone to ruthlessly attack people when they would never have the balls to do that in real life. THAT'S fucking pathetic.

You probably set yourself up to be left by him by being invasive while you were still with him. Maybe you even gave yourself away without knowing it and he left you because you're a snoop.

This is probably the dumbest, most boring I, Anonymous I have ever read. They're usually pretty witty and at least a little bit funny, but this one is just creepy.

It would be way funnier if after telling of all this she ended with 'and then my husband found out and divorced me so now I stalk him too', but that's just my opinion.

She sounds a little bitter still.....

Amanda Park there's a difference between looking at your ex's page and hacking it years after the relationship. Further more if I knew some one was doing this I would have no problem calling them a crazy bitch to their face. Be it a dude or a chick.

Methinks HE'S the one whose better off.

If there is any justice in the world, the Observer's current husband has ethics similar to hers and is sneaking a peek at her emails and other communications and will dump her sorry ass. A woman who violates her lover's trust doesn't deserve a lover.