Talking dirty about future kinks events, or kink events imagined is a GREAT way to get things reving... great advice Dan!
As for the girl with the hidden Porn fetish... She just has to get over her speed bump. Most guys look at porn... and a lot of guys are ashamed and don't want to appear to be a perv, so they lie when asked. Sort of like how most people won't admit they masterbate. Just deal with it, and turn your hidden kink into something fun for you both to enjoy.
How can you not want to look at porn together? It's like going to a strip club with your man - such fun to watch him getting excited and knowing that you get to reap the benefits. I suppose watching what he has already watched would at least let you know what turns him on - always good info to have for later.
As for the girl with the hidden Porn fetish... She just has to get over her speed bump. Most guys look at porn... and a lot of guys are ashamed and don't want to appear to be a perv, so they lie when asked. Sort of like how most people won't admit they masterbate. Just deal with it, and turn your hidden kink into something fun for you both to enjoy.