Savage Love Sep 22, 2011 at 4:00 am

Daddy Issues

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Whoa, I'm surprised Dan didn't advise that person to tell someone about it, the family or anyone. Reporting uneasy feeling or knowledge of things that make you feel that way should be spoken about.
I would get the fuck out of his life, never return or speak with him again, if i found that out. Why give him the benefit of the doubt,that's so fucked it's like dreaming about rape,& sexual abuse. I bet that there was signs of odd behavior.
Even if the child is grown it doesn't make it any less creepy, maybe the father abused the child when they were much younger. Maybe that's the reason why the parents divorced? The child's mother might have known this horrid fact about the father.
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So a guy stretches his earlobes out for "sexy' reasons (i've never heard of such bullshit before), then changes his mind and wants "normal" ears again. And he ends up burning through $800 out of pocket only to end up in WORSE shape than before. Fucking dummy!

And to DAD,

If you go SNOOPING around on someone else's pc and happen to find creepy porn you weren't meant to see, you don't really have a case to stand on. This person's a post-grad and about to start a job in ANOTHER COUNTRY! Does she not have her own damned laptop?
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@ lookup, Why give Dad the benefit of the doubt? Because maybe you love your Dad, he raised you, and he's never been anything but kind to you? Just because someone has weird kink hidden in their computer doesn't mean anything, particularly if they have never acted on it. You are assuming Dad has done things in the past, and "you bet" there are signs of odd behavior. The letter doesn't say if there was, or not. You are projecting your own worst fears onto someone who might not deserve it.

I am a vanilla looking mom to two young kids. I'm friendly, kind, I volunteer with various charities, I work in a place that is dedicated to helping people. You say, "dreaming about rape & sexual abuse" is "fucked." Well, welcome to my kink. I have porn like that in my browser history (all between adults, of course.) I would never, EVER actually act on it; I mean, really, it is just a fantasy. I'm not some super creep monster. Ok, I might have a few leather items hidden way back in the back of my closet. I sincerely hope that if one of my kids stumbled onto that stuff someday when they are adults, they wouldn't cut me out of their lives because of it.
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First of all, your brain has loss all it's working parts & everyone else that feels that it's perfectly fine to RAPE, ABUSE, OR ASSAULT SOMEONE& GET SEXUAL GRATIFICATION FROM THINKING IT IS COMPLETELY MAD/INSANE SEX OFFENDER...

I have my own kinks which have NOTHING to do with the Abuse of Children/ Family members WHATSOEVER. I DON'T feel the NEED to think about such SICK,VERY sick sexual actions.

With all that being said; Kinks that cross the line & blur into Rape,Child Abuse, Sexual Assault, or Underage whatever (yes i know they're all kinks ) ALL OF WHICH IS NOT OKAY!!!

I don't care if you think your not going to act on it or have not put any of your thoughts into action. It doesn't matter if it's done on the net or in real life W/ or without adults it's not right, I'LL CUT ANY OF MY PARENT OFF IN A MIL-NANO SECOND I WOULDN'T CARE IF I KNEW THEM A LIFETIME OR A SECOND OR I WAS ADOPTED. CUT/CUT/SNIP/SNIP/ FUCKING CREEP!!
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Ear play(licking) done right is sooo soooo good! Not too wet!, only if you want it that way. I'll agree that this lobe stretching/plugs has been blown out a bit ( ah plug puns I'm on a blast). I remember one of my former FB having plugs seven years ago. Wow um shout out to pb... I have my own
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Me thinks lookup protests waaay too much about this.
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Hey DamosA,All I'm going to say that this person should not have kids does this make you agree with my train of thought and reasoning Now??!!! These type of people should not have kids be around kids and stick to having safe anal sex w/ a condom or become asexual. Deal w/ it ...
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Well the perv already has one adult kid, so it's not like he can take her back unfortunately. He fucked up and now has a daughter who snoops around on his pc, shifting through all his messed up [yet perfectly legal] porn without his knowing.

This is why men should have visectomies - so we can view wierd porn in peace without having to worry about hyper-judgemental nosy-ass kids. Plus, it's good for the environment and the Earth.

I dare anyone to argue with that, les they sound very foolish.
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Well my train of thought is based on studies of sex offenders. They look at "blank" type of porn & more times than not, act out their perversions in reality. That's why sex trafficking is such a big problem here is Portland, the U.S. & the whole wide world. Some travel far, some to the next city or in this pervert's case the next room.

It's not a matter of going through people's web history that's the problem, the problem is protecting oneself from Sex Assault. Predator preys on their targets, so it just a matter of time before they Sexually Assault someone. See the connect of creepy porn & actions?

Go to the Stranger's Savage love page, because apparently all the pervert kid lovers are commenting there. Just look at the cover of the Stranger- Sex shit,& picture of a kid. I'm not the first one to point that weird detail out.
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@lookup

Correlation is not causation.
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"That's why sex trafficking is such a big problem here is Portland..."

But is it, really? I rode along 82nd ave. this past weekend - from NE Prescott to SE Holgate, several miles - and i didn't see a single prostitute! I think you're just blowing this stuff out of porportion. You see sexual deviancy everywhere, but i'm not convinced that the case.

Now you're trying to single out the front cover of the Stranger? It's just some girl, so what? Where is all this "sex shit" that you speak of???
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Kinda sorta have to agree with lookup.... Anyone who focuses on anything long enough MAY follow through. What it is, is sad, buy yes you have to cut them out. Could not be conscious of this, and be cool with it. Wanna suck stretched ear lobes... Go right the fuck ahead.
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@#11 Have you ever watched a nation t.v. news magazines {( e.g.) NBC,ABC,CBS,CNN-48 hours,20/20,Prime Time, Night Line, Date Line Etc. etc. Etc. } They always have news stories about child sex trafficking practically in Portland,Or area ,or pick up a local news paper have a go @ it. I'm done...

I think this is going to be the first & last time that I'll write this but here it goes- THANK YOU Britney Spears.
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So you allow yourself to be brain-washed by all this corporate media garbage you watch on tv, it's no wonder you're soo ill-informed. The sex-trafficing here in Portland is no more worse than what you'll find in any other American city of similar size.
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lookup is a troll, come ON. we've had the internet now for what, fifteen years? and we still can't call a troll by it's troll-y name. It's probably just DamosA having a conversation with himself.
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Acting on assumptions is dangerous and stupid. I once downloaded some "incest" (knowing it isn't really incest but acting) porn, not because of any fantasy of incest but simply because the guy in it was way too hot to just skip over. So the dad may think the women in the porn are hot. The point is you are making a huge assumption here without having any real evidence, don't be stupid and ruin his life over it, unless you are some type of fundamentalist christian then by all means persecute him as much as possible...
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Indeed, all that assume makes an ass out of u and me crap? They teach it to you for a reason. Correlation does not equal causation, and I think media shoving the sexualization of kids down our throats has made us simultaneously more paranoid about "sexual deviancy" and conditioned to accept it as a part of reality instead of trying to change the things that contribute to the actual harm of children, which is in no way related to somebody's "incest" porn probably featuring porn stars in their 20's and 40s. It's just a power control riff off student/teacher. Btw rape/domination play is actually the second most common fantasy in women and in the top 10 for men, so deviancy is relative. Try to think objectively when speaking about sexual desires, you have no idea what it's like to be anybody else. If you go under the veil of ignorance, you could have been a pedophile (the mental illness that one can't help, not the "child molester" title.) /rant.
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Oh look what I FOUND IN THE Mercury from 2009 !? DaDaA >>> Under age sex trafficing is a fucking problem in PDX and elsewhere around the world you just don't fucking care about children's , women's, people rights... http://www.portlandmercury.com/portland/co…

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