Savage Love Jan 15, 2014 at 4:00 am

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Let's look at what UNCL is complaining about and guess what really happened, because there is no such thing as an unmistakable "hot steamy eye fuck" and never will be such a thing until eyeballs grow genitals. This HSEF might have been solely in the eye of the beholder (forgive me). It probably was.

The reality could be that the nephew understood he was being sent a warm smile of support, and he was so grateful that whenever he looked at the uncle he had an expression of loving gratitude -- which the uncle then misinterpreted as sexual desire because that's something some straight men do. You must know yourself, Savage, that there are straight men who cannot receive friendliness or warmth from a gay man without assuming that it involves sexual desire. Part of what fuels homophobia in straight men is the idea that all gay men want to fuck them.

It's kind of sad. The kid is beleaguered by a semi-hostile family, gets a non-verbal show of support, responds with a non-verbal look of gratitude, and then the uncle decides it's (homo)sexual. Some show of support!

I would have asked UNCL what made him so sure it was an "eye fuck" and suggested that, without an overt pass being made, he was getting the wrong idea and should drop this nonsense until he had something real to act on. And I'd try harder to read between the lines of the "facts" presented in these one-sided descriptions.
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ugly whore go get it....and multiply your stay in florida with more.

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