Apparently, "ghosting" is totally cool now. Its the new "no thank you". I had a girl do it to me right in the middle of a totally awesome first date. We went to three bars, made out, and were way beyond "your place or mine", we were actually at "what's your favorite position?" I went back to my car to grab my smokes & my phone and when I came back she was totally gone. No return on any of my calls or texts. After 5 days I went to her house (yes she gave me her address). Her roommate said that she had left town but would give her the message that I was worried about her. A week later she called me back, and without apology or explanation, came over and fucked my brains out. So the message is be cool and let it be what will be. I know it sucks but that's just how people communicate now. Whether it's a house or a job or a date, people just don't fuckin call you back anymore. Unless they want to.