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      <![CDATA[And what makes you think the guy was a tool? If that were the case, he would've been fired.
        
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      <![CDATA[Maybe parents at the school didn't like you because you were a tool, and not because you were a dude. That was the case for me.
        
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      <![CDATA[You forgot one crucial thing Geyser. I also rag on religious people/christians a whole lot. You FAIL!<br>
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Fyi, i looked up Liechtenstein (it's called RESEARCH), and it turns out there's actually alot to complain about. <br>
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1. The country, if you could even call it that, is domineered by a monarch. Ruled by a prince in particular.<br>
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2. Liechtenstein is recognised as a tax haven. In that regard, they're pretty much the Bahamas of Northern Europe.<br>
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3. Liechtenstein has had close ties to the Austrian Empire at least until WW1.<br>
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4. It's National Union party was sympathetic to the Nazi cause during WW2.<br>
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5. The whole country is basically a free-market no-regulation Libertarian heaven for corporate tax cheats - it's the only "country" in the world with more registered corporations than citizens. <br>
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I could go on, but i think you get it.
        
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      <![CDATA[geyser, yep!!
        
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      <![CDATA[The article could be about turnip farmers in Liechtenstein and DamosA could still find a way to tie it in with one or all of the only three things in his head (so that he can be the center of the "discussion"): 1) racism is everywhere and it is a bad thing, 2) fuck tha police; 3) kids are bad, and having any children at all is bad for the environment, so stop! Please stop?
        
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      <![CDATA[Thank you, Spoolo, for closely examining every single word for correct spelling. Greater issues of race and gender discrimination be damned.
        
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      <![CDATA[this is an interesting article, illuminating preconceived gender expectations and roles. But drawing parallels with ethnic discimination or women's rights is excessive.  Those are widespread societal problems.  This is an uncomfortable sidenote in a modern, economically strained time.  Shit's still the same. pdxthirteen might be right about this.  And damosa, it's "burden", not "burdon".
        
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      <![CDATA[What a severe racist you must be, frankieb, for you to cry racism everytime someone even tries to address the issue. Get help, dude. Portland doesn't need another shooting.
        
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      <![CDATA[I shoulda expected DumabasosA to make this into a black / white issue.
        
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      <![CDATA[White man's burdon: it really does suck that the precious few men who enter into the child care profession are treated the way that they are. And FKA, it was especially shitty what you went through - my condolences. Alls else i can add is, this is about as close as a white man can come to living the "black experience". Black and muslim men are viewed with suspicion every single day on every waking level. At least FKA and Dave could find another job and not put up with the same shit. <br>
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My personal advice to day care providers who're skidish about hiring white males: hire ONLY guys with tattoos, visable piercings, long gothic hair or a mohawk, who clearly listen to either Metal or Punk rock. B/c THOSE guys already take much unwarrented shit from society, i garantee you they will NOT be molesters!
        
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      <![CDATA[a 3 year old getting an erection?  seriously?  check your science, bachmann.
        
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      <![CDATA[FKA: It's not unnatural to pee sitting down at a toilet, what's unnatural is using an indoor toilet. If you want natural, pee outside on the bushes, that's what makes the most sense, cleanliness-wise and ecologically. Sitting down at a toilet is common sense and polite. Spraying pee all over someone's bathroom floor and toilet is pretty rude, wouldn't you say? Go ahead and do it at your own house, if you don't mind a sticky floor and your BR with a pee smell you can never get rid of.  --Bill
        
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      <![CDATA[I am female, and I am utterly convinced that society's salvation lies in getting more men to be primary childcare givers. Keep on doing what you are doing and stand up for yourself, Dave. And for other men who want to go into the childcare field: don't be afraid. We NEED you there. Desperately. Yes, you will be discriminated against. Yes, you will have to fight, constantly, to justify your intentions and your presence. But you know what? This is exactly what women have had to do to break into a male-dominated society and gain and keep jobs as doctors, lawyers, and airline pilots. So welcome to the club, men! This is what discrimination feels like. It is an interesting lesson. And the first rule of the lesson is: keep fighting because you are changing society and changing history. Don't let the ignorant keep you down.
        
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      <![CDATA[Thanks for telling my story twenty years too late.  I worked with kids for eight years, mostly in Early Childhood settings.  It was the only time Affirmative Action worked for me as white male.  Center Directors would point to me as how they were so great at having diversity in the center, yet would treat me like a suspected criminal.  <br>
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The first daycare I worked at, they didn't let me help with the bathrooming activities, until I got tired of the resentment of my female coworkers and informed the director that if the women had to do it, I should have to do it too.  Besides, the women tried to make the boys sit down to pee, and that isn't natural.  That was also when I found out how female teachers could be vindictive when I chose not to agree to a relationship.  <br>
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I almost worked at a daycare that was a corporate daycare for some tech company in Beaverton.  The center owners wanted to hire me, but made me meet the HR manager for the company.  She looked at me and said,"I can't see why a man would want to work with kids and could never hire one."  She actually said that to my face, and guess who didn't get hired.  When I filed a complaint to the Bureau of Labor, I got a check for something like $65.00.  Quite a stiff fine for discrimination.<br>
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The last center I worked at, I started with the school age program until the director begged me to take over the three's class, as they could not keep a woman teacher in there longer than a couple weeks.  When the director was out on maternity leave, the area manager found out I worked with the younger kids, and all of a sudden, I started getting anonymous complaints, and threats to my employment.  After an incident where I was not informed about a new child's particular history and the parent not informed of company policy, they tossed me out with yesterday's garbage.  An administrative judge decided they had no reason to fire me and could see blatant discrimination.  I could have and should have sued. <br>
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Dave, it is a great job, working with kids, but you will face plenty more than you have already.  I know.
        
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      <![CDATA[Oh Dear God.<br>
I must be sick. I agree with racist Dumbosa.<br>
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Dave, we know you're a perv man.
        
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      <![CDATA[I'm happy for Dave that this job is working out for him. But i could never in a million years do this. I hate children - they're just awful. And to have to clean them up too? Pffft, fuck that. If it were me, they would just sit there in it. All day.
        
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      <![CDATA[Hey Dave, thanks for all you do!  I've always admired child care providers and other care givers; it is an extremely underpaid job and yet one of the most important ones!  This may be in part due to the fact that women tend to predominate in these jobs; it is seen as being a "natural" role for a woman, and apparently something that should done for almost free.  Being a male role model is important; I used to mentor at-risk kids, and one of the hardest things was that there were so many little boys looking for male mentors, and maybe one out of 20 volunteers would be male.  So, thanks again, for the great article, and hopefully opening the eyes of some people.
        
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