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      <![CDATA[Bonus points for getting Tegan to comment - very good advice.
        
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      <![CDATA[buttholes are being buttholes and I didn't get to finish the uslove congrats about orientals, age plays, role plays plus plus being broke on  the bus..or or can you believe that last friday night song? or your views o n womens hygeine...and also too too...theres more, so much more to tell and cram for while exposing these secrets and inside opinions and analyseses.
        
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      <![CDATA[I call it as I see it. And you, my friend,  dress like your on your way to the set of tank girl.<br>
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Answer this: why do you use the phrase "really" so much? I only noticed because every FUCKIN hipster in town also does... Ooops, I forgot, you gotta fit in with the rest of the those goons. <br>
Soooo original cliff. <br>
        
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    <author><![CDATA[DamosA]]></author>
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      <![CDATA[Geo, you seem to be overtly obsessed with and always pointing out how [you assume] i dress. I find this curious - especially with you [supposedly] being a dude 'n all. Might you care to explain why?
        
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      <![CDATA[Damosa,<br>
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The letter might be fake but advice applie to many other situations similar. Here, I'll make it relatable for you; Maybe he can only come when he dresses like a 15 yo goth goon....<br>
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Also, posting "really" ala SNL weekend update sketch won't ever get you laid.
        
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      <![CDATA[The letter from "BUMMED" si soo obviously FAKE that it wasn't even funny. And yet, Dan answered it straight as if it were legit! C'mon Dan, really?!
        
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      <![CDATA[Worse/worst... same dif, right?
        
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      <![CDATA[Don't forget to keep it clean- like a washer machine!!!!!!!!!!!
        
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      <![CDATA[Even though I am not a big fan of Savage U ( television program )  { Why is the female character/driver/friend always looking at Dan while they're talking  in a tank/(SUV)? It irks me because accidents are cause by nano seconds  deterred focus on the road ahead. } Regardless of my irks, the one thing that should be brought to light from one of the episodes is simply ask the other person what they're into. <br>
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Anal play is wildly pleasurable if done in a fragile pace first and foremost. If you think a rough brake neck speed is what turns you on, work up to that on the jaunt there. Rim jobs should always be included with female and male oral sex. It's not that unnatural to want simulation in your anus. If it means sticking a finger up there to produce the desired ending, you should not feel shame in doing so or asking for it to be done. You own a prostate; nerve ending and something called the Gspot are in that region. <br>
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Society needs to stop shaming us into a box and then kicking us off the cliff because something perceived as a homoerotic  sex act shouldn't be enjoyed by the masses who engage in sex acts. Sex is sex, love is love and masturbation is masturbation. It's all the same don't limit your self because of  fear ( unless it's your want to project rape or child/animal abuse, unwanted force on to someone. Refrain from those intentions whatsoever! !!!)<br>
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Let go of your ego, it's creating fear and preventing you from getting off, what's worst than that. Your ego will fall apart if you keep pushing away pleasure. Stand up to the homophobes that shame people in to thinking their narrow minded views on how sex should be executed. They are far worst off because they internalize inner hatred outwards. If stand above your doubts you might just find a partner that is willing to and without you knowing it enjoy going into unexplored terrain ( they have already been there and back)!
        
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