Hello people. This is very simple but based off my recent experiences, apparently needs clarification.
When you think you're going to say n****r or c*nt, don't.
If you think you might say n****r or c*nt, don't.
If you're quoting something with "n****r, don't.
If you think you're being inappropriate or you're quoting something you think is edgy, you probably are.
If the words "I'm sorry I offended you" come out of your mouth, you are an asshole and possibly a racist.
If you call someone a "little b*tch" because they're camp and out of the closet, you're probably a little homophobic and should maybe check that out.
(Note: it's about 5x as bad if it happens at work. So I wouldn't do that anymore.)