A Question:

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I think you've answered you own question. But don't let it stop you from dropping hints on IA.
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Absolutely. In fact, I'd redouble my efforts to maintain ties. Try showing up at her home, unannounced and late in the evening, with a bottle of sparkling cider to share. And make sure you're in the delivery room, too, when the time comes. The right thing to do here is to sink some roots into the foundation of your friendship.
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That all depends on the person. A friend doesn't always stop being a friend despite some of the hurtful stuff you may do. You've more than damaged this person's trust, if they are important to you then you've got a lot of work to do and you probably don't deserve them. They could do much better...
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Maybe you can still consider her an acquaintance, but obviously she doesn't think of you as a priority.
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Well, if the friend is always an ashole, then she is not a friend. If she is alright, then like "people you know", friends, etc. But as it is prepositioned in this I, Anon, of course it is not your friend by any means. And if one believes so is a goddam Idiot.
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Don't worry, she'll be in touch when she's ready to hit you up for child support.
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As much I hate social networks&networking or lack there for....( I don't have any of that dookie this blog is as close as I get to socializing on the net )

I would be their friend of course!! She might really need friends right now at this turning point in her & maybe your time in life. Are you any way in connection with her getting a host in side her?? You have to support her if you had sex with her without a condom or it broke or whatever might have happened. Take responsibility for having sex (if that's the case) & all the things that come with having it. Personally if I was her I would have told the partner a lot sooner or if i found out late & didn't get aborted I'll tell them as well. Show your support!!!!! Be a supportive friend & then some!!!!!
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Well... most women try to not tell anyone about their pregnancies during the first trimester because miscarriage is so common. They don't want to jinx the health of their pregnancies by letting everyone know. So typically folks who know that early on in the game are sworn to secrecy because women don't want to be known as that one chick who lost the baby.

Sounds like ya need to hustle your back to Tier One friendship!
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Humped & then there's a bump not good most times than not... Dissing my skills leads to loss of finger nails & loss of time...
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Yeah not enough info. in the IA post. Even if you didn't have anything to do with her being pregnant ( the friendship was not a sexual ) I would still be friends w/ her regardless. Just be her friend, yummy mummies need that ... wash & repeat
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She's a breeder. I say, cut off all ties at least until after the abortion.
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Hey Damosa ~ i'll be sure to let Darcy know that you think Freya, Annakin & Rosie should have been aborted...you false piece of shit! How ugly can you possibly be? Or do you just regret that your mother didn't abort you when she had the chance? If you really feel this way, quit being a false friend. Quit smiling in mother's faces when they talk about their children. i know who you are, & i think that you are SHIT. Not just for your hatred of mothers & fathers & fucking CHILDREN, but for your hypocrisy. If you are going to preach it, then live it.
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yeah Icky, then leave it. You want to have the beer but not the kernel. That`s a waste of time and space. - Captain Kirk -
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Hey Icky, that's some real tough love coming from someone who can't even bother to sign up for an official account. Maybe you ought to pull that yard-long stick out of your butt and lighten up a tad.

I stand by what i said, take it or leave it.
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Damosa, I respect your opinion, dignity, and unique life presence on this earth. In *no way* do I in no way wish that the sperm that wiggled into your mother's ovum would have taken a detour, and ended up in her underoos instead.
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@ damosa ~ i do have an account. And what? You have nothing to say about the fact that you are on here, ALL THE FUCKING TIME, tearing apart children & the women who give birth to them? And yet you show up at my friends party, my friend who has 3 children, & act like all is cool? Fuck you, little man. There is no stick up my ass, i just think that little boys who pick on CHILDREN are pathetic waste's of skin. So, either stand by your ugly "philosophy", or stand down.
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If you began this I, Anon with add "I need a woman's perspective on something ... ," this posting would sound exactly like a pick-up artist's opening line.
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"@ damosa ~ i do have an account. And what? You have nothing to say about the fact that you are on here, ALL THE FUCKING TIME, tearing apart children & the women who give birth to them? And yet you show up at my friends party, my friend who has 3 children, & act like all is cool? Fuck you, little man. There is no stick up my ass, i just think that little boys who pick on CHILDREN are pathetic waste's of skin. So, either stand by your ugly "philosophy", or stand down. "


Wah, wah, wah. That's all i hear from someone who keeps changing their screen names and posting unregistered comments.