We've been to three weddings this year, brought gifts each time, months have passed, and how many thank you notes have we received? Zero! What gives, didn't your mom teach you how to write a thank you note? It's easy, "We got your gift, we appreciate it, thank you". I know you have our address because you sent us the invitation to your wedding in the mail. Even an email thank you would be acceptable these days, but nothing at all? Three weddings, three strikes you're out, from now on all I bring to a wedding is an appetite for free food and alcohol.