C'mon ladies...
So a guy held the door for you and called you "sweetheart," or whatever. And since you're a woman and he's a man he obviously was a condescending shit bird to do such a thing.Here's the thing-maybe he was just being nice. Sure, you don't NEED a MAN to hold a door for you, but maybe he didn't do it because he thinks your vagina makes you weak. Again, maybe he did it to be nice. Are you implying that woman wouldn't hold a door open for man if the situation was reversed? Are woman just assholes? And sure, the "sweetheart" thing. You know, my grandmother called everyone "honey." Male or female. And she didn't use that word as a pejorative toward men. It was how she spoke. So maybe the man who had the unmitigated temerity to hold a door for you just talks that way because that's how he talks. Not every male gesture is an attack on women. Just something to remember for next time, so you don't right another letter like your last one and sound like such an asshole.