I want you, general man with whom i share an attraction, to ask me out. Get to know me and touch the small of my back as I walk through the door first. We'd go on a couple innocent dates and then do nothing, but sweaty humping for weeks.
I want you, kind and respectful man that I'm not attracted to, to acknowledge my respectful yet clear "no thank you" and persistence does not pay off.
I very much believe in equal pitching and no gender roles, this just happens to be what sends tingles to my fun parts right now.
What I'm saying is, ask that person you've been making eyes with for the last two months out. They just might be dying to indulge in an old fashioned fantasy.