"The theme inherent in both these replies is a hatred of straight women with insecurities in their intimate relationships." Dan gives the same advice to women (straight and not) whose partners don't have boundaries and are irrationally consumed by jealousy. Thanks for educating us, though, doc, we almost missed another opportunity for RIGHTEOUS OUTRAGE! You should probably write Dear Prudence next and tell her how horrible it is for her to take sides in the Beatles versus Stones controversy.

Why anyone over 13 would take Dan Savage seriously is beyond me. The guy clearly lives on bile. Which he undoubtedly would find some use for with his next lover.

Kristine Munholland, Ph.D., MSW, if you are jealous of a dead person there is something horribly wrong with you.