I wonder also if more lesbians are obese because of a rejection of societal standards kinda thing. Like, "women are encouraged by a male-dominated society to look pretty and be skinny... so fuck that, I'm gonna eat whatever and not exercise."
This idea that men are more shallow than women, and that heterosexual women obsess over their looks to please men is kind of bullshit. OkCupid definitively disproved this with a much larger sample size than any study to date. (http://3.ly/H8hN)
A female friend of mine listed her top 10 ideal qualities for a potential mate (http://3.ly/Ct65) and tops on her list was height. Her exact words:
"Tall is important enough and nice is unimportant enough, that if you stand above 6'3" and have a gambling addiction, crippling neuroses, poor social skills, are old, are a cabdriver, and worse, I’ll totally date you."
Completely anecdotal evidence to be sure, but still evidence that women can be just as shallow as men.
I'd also like to see a study showing how each sex discriminates based on income.
Not an alcoholic and single in this town, good luck. Thats like a virgin choirboy/scout at a scoutmaster/priest potluck. The only people who are teetotalers are churchies or ultra-hippies, bleh.
Interesting findings, but absurdly shallow conclusions as to the reasoning why. Just as there are starting to be some startling links between poverty and obesity, some researchers are coming up with similarly holistic studies about the LGBTQ communities and mental illnesses such as depression and the like; the link is believed to be related directly to issues of family/society acceptance. I hope that possible explanation is more related to the dim-witted nature of Dan Savage and not the researchers themselves; while it sorta sounds like it might kinda be true, I'm sure there are significantly deeper links relating to socioeconomic, race et al status of the LGBT community as to why these patterns might exist.
A female friend of mine listed her top 10 ideal qualities for a potential mate (http://3.ly/Ct65) and tops on her list was height. Her exact words:
"Tall is important enough and nice is unimportant enough, that if you stand above 6'3" and have a gambling addiction, crippling neuroses, poor social skills, are old, are a cabdriver, and worse, I’ll totally date you."
Completely anecdotal evidence to be sure, but still evidence that women can be just as shallow as men.
I'd also like to see a study showing how each sex discriminates based on income.
Anyone orbit around Sam Adams lately?