Long, long ago when I was a broadcasting student at OSU, I called in to a show on KBVR-FM (the student radio station) where Lively was being interviewed, and in a round-about way he revealed that he was bisexual.

Unfortunately, I have no tape of this interview and have no way of proving it, or I would have released it every time this guy showed up somewhere. (He's more recently famous for stoking anti-gay hatred in Uganda.)

The round-about reasoning was this: I was trying to get to the root of the "it's a choice" argument -- asking how could a heterosexual "choose" to be gay, which is a matter of attraction -- and he defended his position by stating that all humans are basically bisexual and that morality is choosing between appropriate action on an urge and inappropriate action. I then followed up with "so, do you view yourself as bisexual" and got a "yes".

Oh, and also, for those who don't know, Lively also roughed up a female reporter while working for the OCA and the resulting legal claims against him took years to settle. (In fact, I don't know if he's every fully paid the damages to the reporter.)

I was part of the the opposition to the OCA, active in several anti-OCA groups in' 92 inc. No On Hate PAC and No on 9, and was on staff in the No on 13 campaign of '94. The OCA klan really roused up their pseudo X-ian base by the same type of lie-based fear mongering. I can't say Lively has degenerated more; his rhetoric and the OCA claims were outlandish and extremist back then, too. He's got a lot more grey, and looks like his managed to continue making a living off promoting his BS.
Politically, the OCA failed, not just because they lost almost every initiative they forwarded to Oregon voters (they also promoted a few anti-choice measures), but because their efforts riled up and motivated the GLBT and progressive communities in Oregon. The OCA created a whole generation of activists who are still active as volunteers, leaders and professionals in not just gay but other progressive groups and organizations. Fear motivated. Basic Rights Oregon actually grew out of the No on 13 campaign.
Where the OCA succeeded was in making a living for its small kabal of leaders. Mabon, his family, and Lively never wanted for a job, and they scored loads of $ every campaign season from that same 23% of rightwing social conservatives and homophobes. So one has to wonder about Lively and so many other conservo-bots who spew the hate. That crap spewing IS their living, and any self reflection or honest academics could march them straight -pun intended - to the unemploment lines.