"I don't want to blame the victims here" so instead you'll insult their intelligence.

Fuck you, Dan Savage. Out of one side of your mouth you try and help abused GLBT youth, but out of the other you insult abused straight youth.

One of the many reasons church abuses are so despicable is because of the trust placed in the role of a religious leader. The power dynamic is so incredibly skewed - I would not expect a child to run from this situation.

I love you Dan, but stick to the sex advice.

Savage--That sounds like someone who is anti-gay marriage. So you are against same sex bonding rituals and covenants.