You can swallow but you can't do anything else? I came from a Very Vanilla relationship where he would never dream of coming in my mouth, let alone all over me. Now I enjoy Heavenly Hash every now and again! This man taught me how to love myself, with and without him, have sex for hours, and enjoy a threesome, just to name 3 new things I now enjoy. I love when he comes on me, I spread it all over me. He loves it. (just don't get it in your eyes - that can cause irritation) And I'm happy to oblige cuz I can't stand the thought of it going in to my mouth!