i know the feeling. having watched 18 films at piff, my absolute least favorite was =incendies=. wretched. worst serious movie i can remember. not only did it win the audience award at piff, but was an oscar finalist. just because there is rape and incest does not make it a good film.
Just happened upon this because someone strongly recommended the film to me. But thanks to you, Tom ("incest"), I'll probably have to skip it now. Do you not know how to type the word SPOILER?