http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lolita_fashio…

is a good basic source of information on "lolita fashion" for those of you not in the know.

I know kumoricon is like the redheaded stepchild* of local conventions...but you guys forgot kumoricon.

http://kumoricon.org

*or possibly "the child we didn't want and hide in a corner when guests come over and pretend not to see"?

@ScrumYummy: Thanks for the catch! There's also OryCon, I suppose (http://www.orycon.org/orycon33/), though both of those shows seem to be on a much smaller scale and appeal to a much smaller niche than most of the ones I did remember to list.