Hmm, I'm a stay at home dad who loves his kid very much. But I'm still going to fuck all of you...

The Eunuch reference again? Immune system inhibition? Both are largely myths, and who the hell wants to be a eunuch anyway (wait I forgot your line of work...don't answer that). Transitory and age related decreases in testosterone levels are quite common. For example in an 18 month period mine went from 922ng/dl to 540ng/dl (considered high normal but low for me). This was a highly stressful time for me but I coped and in fact worked on my relationship (part of the cause) Testosterone along with a whole cascade of hormones are de facto required for male and FEMALE health. Don't blame type A asshole male behavior on this hormone, that too is a myth. That is a function of emotional and mental maturity. If I had a child I would indeed help raise them. They after all are the priority. And it surprises me not the least that women can be attracted to less masculine men...I live in Portland. Being a timid emo dweeb does not mean you are a better husband or father, it means you're emo. I have seen some slightly less masculine guys throw hissy fits as bad as any "macho" jerk. These are myths Dan....but keep up the good work, I think what you do is very valuable...just go easy on the biochemistry