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Wow, you fucked others guys for him. Why would you do that? Maybe that was his test for you to see if you're a fucking whore.
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I am NOT a vigilante.
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"Apparently my sad desperate texts begging for any sort of explanation or feed back weren't good enough for you".

Ummmmm -- I think you just answered your own question, cray-cray. Also, you might need to go on a diet.....just tryin' to be helpful :)
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Can we just skip the filthy misogyny barrage against the female of a pair of fetishy folk, please? It seems pretty clear the guy had a cuckolding thing or is a simple voyeur.
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Sounds like she was the one doing the "blowing off". Sluts rule. Get down, girl. Go ahead. Get down.
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Women: when guys dont call you back right away (or at all), or come up with half-hearted/phoned-in excuses on why our communication is so bad: IT MEANS WE'RE NOT INTERESTED. It's the polite way of saying "It was fun while it lasted, but let's just move on". Why do you play dumb about our shitty communication? No guys owes you an explanation, people lose interest - it's human nature. Eat some ice cream and move the fuck on, don't whine about it constantly. Your constant need for attention and even more attention is exactly why you're alone. It's too exhausting trying to make you feel like the special gold star you believe you are.
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" Women: when guys dont call you back right away (or at all), or come up with half-hearted/phoned-in excuses on why our communication is so bad: IT MEANS WE'RE NOT INTERESTED. It's the polite way of saying "It was fun while it lasted, but let's just move on" "

That's the polite way?

How about the "I don't have enough courage to be honest." way?

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Clearly IA, it's all YOUR fault. You must've done something to annoy him or scare him off. The fact that you're whining about your personal business on such a pubic forum also indicates you might be abit of a psycho.

In any case, it sounds to me like the poor guy had been initially into you, but eventually he took a good hard look into your eyes and saw some sort of imminent darkness staring back at him.

Look, i'm not trying to troll but it would behoove you to heed my advice: if you truly want answers, take a good hard look in the mirror. If you see the same thing he saw, then you'll have your answer.

You take care now, alright. (p.s. - in the very slim chance that this might actually be someone i know, i was joking.)
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Dang. Damosa is gettin' all Dan Savage all of a sudden. I'll like your post just because so many people disliked it.
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Worst case scenario...the guy bet somebody fifty bucks in a bar that he could get you to cut your hair and sleep with other guys.

You're better off being free and clear from Mr. Pondscum.
There ARE better guys than that, and you'll find one.
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oh, and DamosA..."personal business on such a PUBIC forum"?
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My condolences on your confusion & heartbreak. However, if someone expresses to you that they need space, they mean exactly that. If he was severely depressed, well, that doesn't clear up in a few days. He needed to focus on himself, not you, & not your relationship.

So, i am curious as to why you would be texting him, instead of giving him space. He DID give you an explanation! He told you where he was at, & expected you to respect that, which you did not. Why are you surprised, then, that he hasn't tried to reconnect? It was YOU who disrespected his needs & wishes, not the other way around. ( i do, however, have sympathy for anyone who has to deal with thoughtless, incommunicative boys )
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"Darlin' don't you go and cut your hair, do you think it's gonna make him change?"
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"Women: when guys dont call you back right away (or at all), or come up with half-hearted/phoned-in excuses on why our communication is so bad: IT MEANS WE'RE NOT INTERESTED. It's the polite way of saying "It was fun while it lasted, but let's just move on". Why do you play dumb about our shitty communication?"

lol, "why do you play dumb"? hey, why do YOU play dumb? yeah, she's clearly naive for letting it go on for so long, but the guy is a coward, plain and simple. it's not "polite" to string someone along, it's avoidant. the term "polite" implies that you're doing it for someone else's benefit, really you're just doing it to make yourself more comfortable. grow some balls and be honest, people will respect you more.

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