then tell them, not an anonymous rant blog on an alt-weekly's website

Just quit flying in to save this person, who is a spoiled brat. I agree with ^I guess you hope your loved one will read this and have a miraculous change.

Say your cut off, no more $, and you deny your family so go to your "friends". TOUGH LOVE, it sometimes is the only thing left.

Sometimes, the only way to really get through to someone is to fuck somebody they care about.

Sorry, couldn't help myself.

Anywho, sounds like your family member is wallowing in victim status. Until they get over that way of thinking, there's only so much you can do for them, other than what you've already done. Sounds like they have a loving family, so hopefully they pull their head outta their ass before it's too late.

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There's no "a" in concern.