Sounds like someone keeps giving it up and then getting dumped. Don't worry, honey, it's not him. It's you.

Stop letting these men use you. Date them for a few months, before YOU choose to fuck them. Take YOUR choice & power back. Only an immature jerk or a CREEP pressures women to have sex. It is SOOOO easy to find out if a guy is into you, OR just wants to use you. Take a deep breath and tell him, "We are not going to have sex until I feel comfortable with you, that might mean months of dating". OR, "I am looking for a long term relationship, lets get to know one another psychologically, mentally, emotionally, & intellectually BEFORE we explore each other sexually". You CAN date without fucking these boys, and based upon the angst of your letter, you need to re-evaluate why you feel like you need to. We ALL make hasty decisions about partners based upon starting a sexual relationship TOO soon. Had I followed my own advice, I would have learned sooner then later that my ex-spouse and I were NOT compatible and everyone would have be spared the pain and heartbreak of failure and divorce.

YEAH. What the LAST person said. Though I must ADMIT I didn't actually READ it.

Really?! This made the paper?!

Well that just depresses the hell right out of me, there are no nasty, snarky or pithy comments that I can make to this one, well said!!! Bravo!!! Finally a woman who "Gets" it, (no not in that way, get your head out of the gutter) Women are FAR more POWERFUL than they give themselves credit for, so with that in mind, Go out and Date your pretty little ass off, but keep you clothes on, unless or until MONOGAMY has been established and agreed to, unless you just want a BOOTY CALL, in which case, give me a call, just sayin!!!!