I, Anonymous Oct 8, 2014 at 4:00 pm

To Stalk and Creep

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1
Here's how you know if it's stalking or not: would you be okay if some random gay dude you don't know did this to you? Because he was attracted to you? And it works, like, 25% of the time? Would you appreciate him doing that? Watching where you work, and finding out where you live? Would it bother you at all? Especially if he was much larger than you and could easily subdue you and/or assault you if he wanted to? How does it sound now? Still sound good? If so, you're fucking crazy.
2
You are CLEARLY ignorant of the definitions of the word "stalker" so let me enlighten you here:
verb (used without object)
1. to pursue or approach prey, quarry, etc., stealthily.
adjective
2. of or pertaining to the act of pursuing or harassing:
3. to proceed in a steady, deliberate, or sinister manner:
5. to pursue (game, a person, etc.) stealthily.
WHAT YOU ARE DOING IS EXACTLY STALKING. STOP!
3
You are completely fucked in the head.
4
no dude, that is creepy. why don't you ask for their number after getting to know them a bit, like a normal person?
5
Creep.

What you're doing is frightening. You need to stop RIGHT NOW!

If that doesn't make an impression on you, I'm hoping that someone with Mace will.
6
I'd definitely follow them first. No point trying to hook up with them if they live in a shitty neighbourhood. Also, I would check through their bins to get a bit more background information to make it more likely that you can connect with them.
7
Stalker
8
No. Stop. You're completely wrong. Your behavior is creepy and it is stalking. Quit it. Right now.
9
That sure sounds like stalking to me.

Are you sure the 25% who say yes aren't just doing so because they're afraid you'll do something even more creepy and/or crazy if they don't play along? Obviously they are not forming long-lasting relationships with you if you're doing this as regularly as you imply.

Even if that 25% are sincere (and I highly suspect you pulled that number out of your ass), what you're doing is 100% creepy. It's not sexy, it's not cute, and your life is not a damn movie. In the real world, that's the sort of thing that gets you a restraining order.

Just stop.
10
Dude, providing this isn't just a made-up story for trolling purposes ... you're a stalker, and you have scary, bad, unfunny, unironic, and unfriendly attitudes about women. That's not how you get a girlfriend. Get help.
11
*Shudder* This is scary and seems likely to escalate, especially with this creeps complete lack if empathy and understanding. This is not welcomed behavior from any woman, nor is it romantic.
12
Stalkers never think of themselves as stalkers.
13
"...it works 25% of the time" Right...that means 75% of the women you approach this way see you as a creep. Learn some boundaries.
14
Yeah, it's so stalker-y that I wondered if it was a good idea to post with my real name. I seriously stopped myself for a second and was like, "Am I asking to be stalked by using my real identity here?" But then I remembered what a good shot I am with a .45, and that made me feel better.
15
I'm surprised you haven't already been met with Mace. Or a pistol. People do not like to feel uncomfortable-especially in the state if the world today. It's important that you flip the situation and imagine you were a smaller, perhaps more vulnerable or targeted person because of the way you looked-because that's exactly what you are basing your pursuits on. If you think you would like that other than in a sexy, role-playing, consensual way, then you need professional help.
16
It works "25% of the time" because you've scared them into compliance.
17
Quite literally the definition of stalking.
18
If you're stalking them with the intent to eat them, then that is completely natural behavior for an anthropomorphic wolf. But stalking them for the intent to proposition them sexually, that's really going too far. You're a wolf. Leave the humans alone.
19
dude is a troll or a terrible jokester
20
I feel like I need to know more... My over-all ideas about this is that he doesn't seem to be wanting to induce harm on these woman. He's just curious and has a weird way of going about showing his interest.
21
Troll or jokester, the dude is criminally stupid and an asshole.
22
You may get dates 25% of the time, but you are creepy 100% of the time. If you ever pull that shit on me, I'm going to kick your ass and/or shoot you. That's not a threat... It's a fact. That's what normal people do when threatened. And what you are doing is threatening.
24
If he hasn't been maced or arrested by now then he's probably super good looking. In that case he is not a stalker, just an over confidant charmer.
25
Many women do not like for a man to gather information about them in such a manner. It seems aggressive, invasive, and disrespectful because it is a one-sided non-consensual set of behaviors. You are a stranger who finds these women attractive and knows where they work and/or socialize and also where they live. To show up on their doorstep seems, from the outside, to be DESIGNED to make them aware of the fact that you have found out where they live WITHOUT ASKING THEM. This information was not asked for and freely given but taken by stealth and subterfuge. I would assume a man who behaved in this way towards me would always be more likely to ask for forgiveness than permission. I would assume that such a man handles rejection very poorly, possibly violently, which is why he did not ASK for this information but acquired it before confronting me. I would ask for his name and then lock the door and call the police.

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