"And here's where you went wrong, ESOC: You fucked this girl. She naturally interpreted your willingness to fuck her as a sign that you didn't care about the discrepancy between her photos and her actual appearance. It's going to make the rejection she has coming more devastating than it needed to be."

Nope, it just means he was horny and wanted a lay. Fucking doesn't mean jack shit in terms of maintaining a relationship.

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"My Boyfriend's Not A Loser" wrote an interesting letter that deserved a better response, Dan.