I am bisexual and monogamous. According to this guy I am doomed to be self loathing. I choose to be with my husband and only him, its what I want, no self loathing involved. Why put everyone's sexually in a little box and say if they don't fit into your model perfectly they are self loathing? That is just plain stupid. Be who you are, be with who you want, do what makes you happy and screw everyone else's definition