PHOEBE ROBINSON LOVES pop culture. The comedian, who co-hosts the 2 Dope Queens podcast with Jessica Williams and whoâll be in town at Live Wire! Radio this week, grew up on episodes of The West Wing and Inside the Actors Studio. Sheâs harnessed the power of pop culture in her new book You Canât Touch My Hair: And Other Things I Still Have to Explain.
Rich with pop culture references from Sex and the City to The Sandlot, itâs not unusual for an insightful anecdote to start with something like, âRemember on Greyâs Anatomy when Izzie stole a heart for Denny, a heart transplant patient she fell in love with, but he died anyway?â
As with comedy, Robinson believes pop culture can be a vehicle for change. âPeople debate about BeyoncĂ© emerging as a feminist, but a lot of young girls may not have paid attention to it until she started talking about it,â she says. âIs it kind of annoying that it needed to be a pop star before some people got on board with feminism? Yeah, but at the end of the day thereâs a young girl saying âI want to be a feminist now, Iâm going to read bell hooks.ââ
In addition to being a pop culture compendium, the book is also a memoir. Robinsonâs hairâwhich has always shaped her identityâis a jumping-off point for a host of experiences tied to race, gender, and show biz, like the time a white director called her âuppityâ (and then proceeded to make his apology all about himself), or a humiliating reality TV stint where she was judged based on her headshot and cautioned against sounding âtoo smart.â
And should you think political correctness is âkillingâ comedy, Robinson is one of many comedians proving you can be both respectful and funny. âI talk about dating stuff but I also turn my âfunny laserâ onto sexism in the workplace or microaggressions that people of color go through,â says Robinson. Her audience trusts her âbecause I take my time coming to the conclusion Iâve come toâitâs not just me being silly and goofy without any regard for how people actually feel.â
This is apparent in her book, which Robinson injects with laughs, even when covering heavy topics. She offers advice as to how to avoid being the âtoken black friendâ (yell âdonât you Legend of Bagger Vance me!â), drops truth bombs like âRacist behavior [doesnât only happen] within a three-block radius of Paula Deenâs house,â and shares important life lessons: Love yourself, stop apologizing for who you are, and no oneâno oneâis a Carrie. You Canât Touch My Hair achieves the impressive feat of being an accessible, fun read covering some serious issues; half of it is hilarious and the other half (see: the title) makes you think, âIt sucks this needs saying at all.â
Robinson channels her combo of social justice and humor (and all those hours with James Lipton) on her new podcast, Sooo Many White Guys, where she real-talks about racism and sexism with folks like Hari Kondabolu, Janet Mock, and Roxane Gay.
Robinson says her book tour âwill be a healthy mix. Youâll see sides of me that you donât see on 2 Dope Queens.â Expect some tasteful âvajeenâ jokes, some U2 adoration (Robinson is an unironic fan), and the soul-searching thatâs made her the dope queen she is today.
You Canât Touch My Hair: And Other Things I Still Have to Explain
by Phoebe Robinson
(Plume)