I feel ya, though I'm not straight, and just take hold of the basic queer title which I feel is pretty broad in of itself, which I like about it. I'm in a loose sense masculine, I was born a man, and never didn't not feel like one. Though I am pretty dumb struck at both the trans individual, and really all the labels in-between that take on this cartoonish notion of their identity. For example I have met, and partnered with enough trans men to see it's a bit out there that they choose to represent themselves as literally the most ridiculous caricature of masculinity, as if that is what it is to be a man. I have at times took them aside, and genuinely asked do you really think this is what it is to be a man?