You neglected to mention what you do for work, I/A. That's likely a large piece of the puzzle.

They either have really good jobs or #richparents.

Marry rich. Duh.

Unless you work for yourself, or get a MUCH better job, get used to the rest of your life grinding for peanuts and no free time. I work for myself, and live your neighbor's life--in control of my own schedule, free time when it works for my family (not some "boss" who doesn't give a shit about my life), and good money that goes directly to me. We can all create our own path in life. It takes courage and hard work, but it beats being a disposable wage slave. On your death bed, you're not going to care how many hours you worked during the best years of your life. or ever. Life ain't no dress rehearsal. Make your days enjoyable.

^ Good comments, but I am not feeling the rant.

bootstraps...mumble-mumble...BOOTSTRAPS!