If you don't want to have kids, that's cool. I don't really care how you choose to live your life. I have so many friends who don't want kids because "they like their freedom". Honestly, we kind of think that's just sad. I mean, some of you are over 40. Going to a bar, eating out, trips whenever, these things probably seem like the pinnacle of your life. But compared to the deep belly laughs my children give me everyday, and the simple joys I experience through them make all those things you love seem boring and futile. Kids are 100% better than adults. I would rather be with them than any drunk sad sacks closing a bar on a Tuesday night. So don't have a kids if you don't want too, and tell me how much you enjoy your "freedom" in 20 years when you're officially to old to hit up that dive bar that fills your loneliness right now.