Thank you to the dude who was demoing nut butters next to my cafe and was friendly and kind and didn’t ask for my number afterwards. Thank you for realizing me making you a mole mocha for free was because I liked talking to you and wanted you to try it and wanted to be kind not because I was interested in your dick or any other body part. Thank you for joking with me and not making me uncomfortable and when leaving just waving and saying “Thanks for everything! See you later!” That interaction helped me through one of a series of really bad days. It’s so easy not to be creepy and make female bodied people safe and valid.