There was a hobbling man and a petite young girl who were picking up cones.
She stacked about 5 of them. Man said, come on is that all you can carry? It was a joke to him. That chick was young and nice, she sorta smiled. Why does this happen? If it had been anyone else, there would be no jokes. Joke or not, that's no way to support your coworker. That kind of joke gets old quickly amongst certain personalities. I've offered to help in similar situations. And immediately second guess myself like I'm overstepping an unspoken boundary. For me it's teamwork and often will just do it whether asked or not or what is perceived. People also don't do things they don't wanna do, that's one way to know. Guys are baboons. Next time, then, do it yourself buddy.